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Tuesday, December 27, 2005

To dear friends, family & colleagues

 
To everything there is a season
a time and a purpose

Ira Dwi Puspitasari, ST
and
Audi Eko Susatyo, ST

invite you to share with them
a day of happy beginnings
when they will unite in marriage

on Sunday, 08 of January
2006
at 12.00
Gedung Graha Bakti Praja
Jl. Pahlawan no.32
Madiun – Jawa Timur
INDONESIA Posted by Picasa

Thursday, December 15, 2005

THIS IS IT !!!......

 

This is it!
Oh, I finally found someone
Someone to share my life
I finally found the one
To be with every night
Cause whatever I do
It's just got to be you
My life has just begun
I finally found someone

Did I keep you waiting?
I didn't mind
I apologize
Baby, that's fine
I would wait forever
Just to know you were mine
Ya Know - I love your hair
Are you sure it looks right?
I love what you wear
Isn't it too tight?
You're exceptional
I can't wait for the rest of my life Posted by Picasa

FINALLY WITH SOMEONE

 

I finally found someone
Who knocks me off my feet
I finally found the one
Who makes me feel complete
It started over coffee
We started out as friends
It's funny how from simple things
The best things begin...

This time is different
It's all because of you
It's better than it's ever been
Cuz we can talk it through
My favorite line was
"Can I call you sometime?"
It's all you had to say
To take my breath away Posted by Picasa

SOMETHING ABOUT HAPPINESS

 

Manusia bisa bahagia bila ia bisa membuka mata
Untuk menyadari bahwa ia memiliki banyak hal yang berarti
Manusia bisa bahagia bila ia mau membuka mata hati
Untuk menyadari, betapa ia dicintai
Manusia bisa bahagia, bila ia mau membuka diri
Agar orang lain bisa mencintainya dengan tulus

Manusia tidak bahagia karena tidak mau membuka hati
Berusaha meraih yang tidak dapat diraih,
Memaksa untuk mendapatkan segala yang diinginkan
Tidak mau menerima dan mensyukuri yang ada.

Manusia buta, karena egois dan hanya memikirkan diri sendiri
Tidak sadar bahwa ia begitu dicintai
Tidak sadar bahwa saat ini, apa yang ada adalah baik,
Selalu meraih lebih, dan tidak mau sadar karena serakah

Ada teman yang begitu mencintai, namun tidak diindahkan
Karena memilih, menilai, dan menghakimi sendiri
Memilih dan mencari-cari teman yang sempurna,
padahal di depan mata, ada teman yang sejati

Telah memiliki segala yang terbaik, namun serakah
Ingin dirinya yang paling diperhatikan, paling disayang,
Selalu menjadi pusat perhatian, selalu dinomorsatukan
Padahal, semua manusia memiliki peranan, hebat, dan
no. 1 dalam satu hal, belum tentu dalam hal lain
Dicintai oleh satu orang belum tentu oleh orang lain

Kebahagiaan bersumber dari dalam diri sendiri
Jikalau berharap dari orang lain,
siaplah ditinggalkan, Siaplah dikhianati

Kita akan bahagia bila bisa menerima diri apa adanya
Mencintai dan menghargai diri sendiri
Mau mencintai orang lain, dan mau menerima orang lain
Dengan apa adanya mereka

Percayalah kepada Allah, dan bersyukurlah kepada-Nya
Bahwa kita selalu diberikan yang terbaik sesuai usaha kita
Tak perlu berkeras hati, Ia akan memberi kita di saat yang tepat
Apa yang kita butuhkan, apa yang kita inginkan,
Meskipun bukan hari ini, masih ada esok hari

Berusaha dan berbahagialah, karena kita masih dicintai
Begitu banyak orang Posted by Picasa

PERSONAL PERCEPTION

 



Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them ride on the donkey? "Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey.

Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman."
The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders.

It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.

Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear.. Posted by Picasa

RIGHT SPEECH

 



There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered, "You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed Posted by Picasa

TRUST

 



TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB". Posted by Picasa

Wednesday, December 14, 2005

BE PATIENT


This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.

Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, "Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed
suicide.

Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

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NO OVERPOWERING


Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."

It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
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CREATING PERFECT REATIONSHIPS?

A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my
leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television."

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
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